Let’s be real. We all have a huge list of to-do’s but none of them probably include “Learn how to enjoy the season.” But I promise it’s much simpler than you think and we did all the hard work for you.
Let’s see how easy in the final part of our series with advice from Pastor Jim Stecker, Church That Matters’s Executive Pastor of Marriage and Family Biblical Guidance Counseling on 3 TIPS FOR A JOY-FILLED CHRISTMAS.
Tip 1: Capture the Moment
Slowing down can feel IMPOSSIBLE this season, but capturing the moment is what this season is all about! And no, we aren’t talking about capturing it on your phone. Turn the TV off, put away electronics, sit down and talk to your family, read a book together, or take a walk. Most importantly, be present!
Tip 2: Reclaim Your Planner
From cookie exchanges to gatherings and parades to Christmas shopping, our planners get full fast. But NONE of that is important! It’s time to reclaim your schedule by focusing on our savior! Say no to that potluck and spend time reading Luke. Cancel that party you didn’t want to go to anyway and choose to spend time singing carols to your King! Make this season about Him, not you.
Tip 3: Practice Gratitude
Being grateful this time of year can be a bit tricky. Comparison is rampant, and that’s without looking at the sales and ads that make you think you need it all. But Pastor Jim discussed how much of a game changer it is to sit down and talk about what we do have and how we are grateful for it. Bonus, this also helps you practice being present! Pastor Jim pointed out this verse.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. -Philippians 4:8
BONUS Tip 4: Stay in Community
“Sometimes isolation causes you to want to just stay isolated,” said Pastor Jim.
Not everyone has a family they are close to. Others have to share family with other grandparents, ex-spouses, and obligations. The perfect recipe to feel isolated and alone. But please, don’t isolate yourself! Reach out to your friends, acquaintances, or your house church, and start making new traditions. Plan a recipe exchange, go to a movie, and enjoy the community God has placed around you!
Now, we have our marching orders in three easy steps. Let’s have a joy-filled holiday season!
God, thank you for the joy brought down in a little manger. God thank you for these women and for the way you are going to touch their lives and use them for your glory. God help us remember these points throughout our week. Keep us grounded in you, thankful for our blessings, and in the moment. God give strength to those who feel alone and surround us all with encouragement and most importantly your joy-filled spirit. We thank you and we love you. In Jesus Name, Amen.
If you haven’t given your life to God, or maybe you have felt a stirring but haven’t acted, God is always there for you. He waits at the door to your heart. Open it. Loosen the fear. Life won’t be without hardship, and doubts will come, but God is bigger and SO much better. We pray with you today that God draws you near and helps you see all that He has created you to be. We would love to hear from you below in the comments, on our Facebook page, or at churchthatmatters.com/connect .
