You're Not Alone // Chelynn Broughton

As we prepare for Christmas, let me remind you of what all the hype is about: why we decorate our homes inside and out, why we buy gifts for our friends and family, why we sing Christmas songs, watch Christmas movies, and send Christmas cards. Well, it all started a long time ago when a virgin named Mary gave birth to a son, and they called him “Immanuel, which means God with us” (Matt 1:23). He was God’s ultimate gift to each of us. We celebrate that gift each year with all of the activities that make up Christmas. 

Some people anxiously await this season; while others dread its approach each year. I’m sure you know which category you fit into. 

Our theme for the blog this month is “Not Alone,” but the holidays actually leave some feeling more lonely than ever. 

I hope that isn’t you, but if it is, please listen closely. The Bible tells us over and over again that God is with us, not high above us, but WITH us. In Matt 28:20, Jesus said,

“I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” 

Psalm 23:4 says,

“Even when I walk through the darkest valley, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me.”

In Deuteronomy 31:6, we are told,

“be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid and do not panic before them. For the Lord your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you.”

In Psalm 27:10, it says,

“Even if my father and mother abandon me, the Lord will hold me close.” 

He longs for an intimate relationship with you. If you have been struggling with a sense of loneliness, you can draw nearer to Him through His word and prayer.

‭‭Your  immediate family may be spread out during this holiday season, but you have sisters in Christ who love you and care about you. Please join us at Coffee Talk on Saturday mornings. We have some really strong prayer warriors among us.

Remember the reason for the season, and don’t let all the extra stuff distract you from the true celebration. 

Happy holidays, my friends.


Chelynn is a contributing writer for Shaken and Stirred. She is a long-time daughter of Christ, a wife, mother of two amazing adult children, and Nonnie to four beautiful grandchildren. She teaches Senior English at Charles Page High School and is also a Realtor for Keller Williams. She enjoys all things summer including boating, vacationing, and swimming.

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